About Megan

The person you are trusting with your most important relationships.

I didn’t begin my career as a counsellor. I began in the corporate world.

For 25 years, I worked in executive leadership across international organisations, spanning state and regional management, human resources, and workplace relations. I built teams, led through crisis, and navigated high-pressure environments where the stakes were real and the margins for error were small.

And somewhere along the way, I realised something that changed everything:

Every problem I was solving was, at its core, a relationship problem.

Conflict between colleagues. Leadership breakdowns. Team dysfunction. Burnout. When you strip away the business language, what remains is simple, people who don’t feel heard, respected, or safe.

That realisation led me to counselling.

For the past three decades, I’ve dedicated my work to helping people repair, rebuild, and redefine the relationships that shape their lives, through couples counselling, individual counselling, relationship development, and mediation.

I work with couples who feel uncertain about where their relationship is heading and want clarity. Whether that means reconnecting, rebuilding, or redefining what comes next. I support individuals who have lost themselves in their roles and are seeking insight, confidence, and direction. I guide families through complex and often emotional dynamics; estate disputes, aged care decisions, and long-standing tensions. I work with business partners and colleagues navigating conflict that is impacting both performance and wellbeing. And I provide mediation for those who need a structured, respectful way forward when communication has broken down.

Across all areas of my work, the focus is the same: improving communication, rebuilding trust, and creating the conditions where honest conversations can happen.

Because when people feel truly heard, understood, and supported, change becomes not only possible – but sustainable.

Megan Tregilgas - Counsellor St Leonards

The Authentic Counsellor is based in St Leonards, Narrabeen, serving the surrounding areas of Sydney’s North Shore, Northern Beaches and Beyond. Megan is dedicated to guiding you through challenges and towards a path of well-being. Embracing the profound impact of genuine connections, cultivating a space free of judgment where you can feel truly understood and supported.

My Approach

I am not the kind of counsellor who sits quietly and asks how that makes you feel. My approach is hands-on, practical, and direct.

I use whiteboards. Worksheets. Real-time exercises. Strategies you walk out the door with and use that same evening.

I draw from Gottman Method Couples Therapy, Schema Therapy, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavioural Therapy (DBT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Solution Focus Therapy and Mindfulness. But I do not force you into a box. Every person is different. Every relationship is different. I tailor my approach to what you actually need.

My clients tell me the same thing: sitting across from me feels safe. Comfortable. And like you are finally being heard by someone who actually gets it.

I believe there is a better, more authentic version of you waiting to emerge. And I am here to help you find it.

I’m here to help you achieve your goals and empower you to problem solve. The theories I used include Cognitive Behaviour Therapy, Acceptance Commitment Therapy, Mindfulness Therapy, Solution Focus Therapy, Gottman Method Couples Therapy and Sex Therapy.

  • Anxiety
  • Stress
  • Grief and Loss
  • School and Work Pressures
  • Relationships – Couple and Individual Therapy
  • Painful Sex – Techniques on communication, improving the quality of sex and or vaginismus and vulvodynia
  • Intimacy Problems – Including mismatched libidos
  • Conflict Resolution

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I called my business The Authentic Counsellor as I feel being authentic means embracing your true self, expressing your unique perspectives and values, and I would like to help you live a life that aligns with your deepest desires and passions.

Megan Tregilgas, The Authentic Counsellor

Megan is an amazing counsellor! She has helped me so much with my anxiety, she’s super compassionate and committed to her work and really calm and comfortable to talk and open up to. I would highly recommend her if you need any type of counselling. :)

Madeline Rose , Client